Hope you choose to stop surviving (passively being alive),
and start thriving (actively feeling alive) because:
Times of challenge always highlight the most radiant beings!
From The Coming Storm by Richard Rudd/Gene Keys
Okay, so you say “Yes!” get excited and then ask… “How?”.
Here’s my “How?”, “Why?”, “What?” and “Where?” to see what survival looked like so you can respectfully and formally say goodbye to nonsense and openly say hello to starting over and actively feeling alive.
[Quick Time & Energy Saver Tip] When people think you are crazy for starting over, they will trip you up with their limited beliefs and fears because they are attempting to hold you back from your ultimate goal of change; they will delay your journey and waste your time in the spin zone because they are not ready, willing or able to change… instead, you can simply reply with these 3 words:
I don’t know.
No further explanation or reception of their reaction is needed.
Become Your Own Role Model [Breakthrough]
Attack was the label on the laundry detergent in Japan and for a month I kept hiding the label until I saw a video.
A video on all the fighting happening that people want to solve only through a new leader or a new role model.
A video that dove deep into the roots and heart of humanity.
A video that explained why we are at war with ourselves.
Upon awakening, I was angry and spilled coffee until I paused.
What we watch, listen to, see and hear is what becomes and affects our world.
To change our world we can only look inside ourselves to understand the root of our own war; look to the cause, not the symptoms; look to the ugly truth of why we engage in arguing, blaming, ridicule, judgement or ignoring; not endlessly seeking who or what will save us.
Making a decision is a form of exercising and building #personalpower. A decision is required to not perpetuate the problem by getting caught in rabbit holes, latest headlines and/or self help holes.
Decide to admit your truth and put it on the table front, center and now.
Then stand tall to not become another victim, savior or endless seeker.
One tiny step forward is also the decision to say “Enough is enough.”
Another step forward is to see: We are all carrying pain from disappointing role models and we can become our own role model.
Another step forward is to say: “I will become my own role model by doing and behaving according to my standards and values.”
Then you can stop barking and start embarking.
Embarking on a daily journey of betterment, not a destination.
Embarking with a daily observation of behaviors, not judgements.
Embarking to live in our answers, not other people's problems.
What is the ugly truth?
It is that we have all been groomed, trained and programmed to sustain a blame game thinking other humans are wrong and we are also guilty and shameful.
It is a perpetual losing game until one steps out of the sespool and in to rebuilding a pool filled with self worth.
That old game required you to carry low self worth so you are constantly on the verge of attack, victim and fight or flight mentality toward everything or constant distraction. (Depletion)
Rebuilding self worth as an open container holds hope, limitless solutions and new approaches to a better life. (Regeneration)
Seeing low self worth stemming from unhealthy or disappointing male and female role models simply playing cover up or blame games is sick, unhealthy and enough is enough.
There was another video I saw about prisoners who were never shown love or respect and gained a second chance by caring for rescue dogs. The rescue dogs and the prisoners were no longer victims. Instead they decided to embark upon rebuilding self worth through a game of trust and unconditional love, one tiny step at a time.
Prisoners don't have to be behind physical bars to be trapped and prisoners are around all of us ... prisoners trapped in their own mind by replaying poor role model and victim stories.
Enough is enough. Let’s get a new game on!
Give yourself a second chance by choosing to start over followed by a deliberate action of embarking on a new mission in a safe space for facilitating your change during our changing times...